Old, and New

So i've made a lot of changes in my wardrobe since I made the decision to go to law school and become a lawyer. I now have more pairs of dress pants than sweatpants (GASP, i know!). My columbia coat is now the least worn coat in my wardrobe. I think, however, I realized the biggest change today when I was putting my new shoes safely in their new spot high up on my bookshelf (D'artagnan chewed through two heels a couple of weeks ago, so I had to find them a safer spot). May I present to you . . .

Old Shoes:

New Shoes:

my sister would be proud:)

Fall Break and . . . Dumas!

The long awaited fall break is finally here, and I must say I have enjoyed it thus far! I spent Thursday studying a little, and then Jill, Phil, and Joe came over for a couple of games of settlers. The studying was productive and the settlers games were tons of fun, so that made for a successful Thursday. Then Friday Chris and I drove out to Iowa to celebrate (a little early) our 1 year anniversary. We went down to Des Moines to see Wicked, which was AWESOME! Not as good as the Lion King, but definitely up there on my favorite plays list. It really was a cool story. Today we drove back and I spent the rest of the day writing my second graded WRAP assignment, the Partial Memo.

The Partial Memo is such that we have to pretend we are an associate in a firm writing to one of our partners about a client and his legal issues that he has brought to us. We end it with our conclusion of the issues and our recommendations. I must say that writing on a Saturday night is not very productive. I think I spent more time on facebook than writing the memo! But I did eventually get it written, which means all's I have for tomorrow is editing.

This brings up a major issue of my law school career, Facebook. I can't tell you how many endless hours I have spent wasting time on facebook. Don't get me wrong, i love keeping up with everyone and reading about my friends and what they are doing. Facebook makes me feel connected even when I don't have the time to physically be with everyone. But, I can't help but wonder how much more productive I would be without it. Honestly, I would probably find other waste of time things to do, these breaks from studying may be what is keeping me sane. So I will keep my facebook habit for now!

On another note, first graded mid-term next week. No worries here though, I feel ready for it and confident that I will be able to decipher my professors ramblings:) If not, I will learn from the experience and do better on the final, that is the good thing about mid-terms, we actually get feedback for once!

Enough about school. I would like to introduce you to the latest edition to our family, Dumas. He is a 3.5 month old rescue dog from WI. We think he is vizsla mixed with greyhound, maybe? We're not really sure, nor do we really care! He is such a sweet sensitive dog, and so smart too! Chris can't wait to get him trained up to go pheasant hunting, he's got webbed feet and a "soft" mouth so he will be perfect.

It has been really fun to watch D'artagnan and his relationship evolve. Dart is very dominant and playful and Dumas is very calm, cool, collected, and always wants to be in your lap (we'll see how that goes when he gets bigger!) so it has taken them a while to get used to each other. But we are now a week into it, and they are becoming buddies:)

He loves to give kisses!

such a cute little guy!

His first day: D'artagnan barking at him, and Dumas just sitting there wondering what to do with this crazy dog!

Tonight: they spent the night wrestling with socks and toys and are now crashed out in my chair, SO CUTE!

The week in review and . . . Brooklyn!

This week was pretty uneventful. Our midterms seem to be approaching must faster than we anticipated so it is making everyone a little on edge, which adds a whole new element to the school atmosphere. I'm also beginning to feel like my school day breaks are starting to fill up with never ending appointments. Meet with the fellowship director, meet with the multi-cultural affairs lady, make sure to go to some required PLP events (we have to go to 10 events by mid next year, something about giving us perspectives on lawyering?), meet with my grammar tutor, etc. That along with the constant studying leaves me drained by the end of the day. It seems like every Tuesday I come to the end of the day thinking, "oh good tomorrow is Friday" and then I realize it only feels like tomorrow should be Friday because I have crammed so much into my brain on monday and tuesday!

But honestly, I'm kinda liking the pressure. I've always been competitive, so law school feels like this constant game that I am working endlessly to win. Though unlike the way I play competitive sports (and board games), I'm hoping the competition doesn't get the best of me! One thing that I have learned as I have grown older is that winning isn't everything. If you knew me 3 years ago you know how much I needed to learn this lesson! I learned that it isn't always worth getting mad at your teammates for making a mistake, or mad at yourself cause you screwed something up, it is about having fun. I try and remind myself of these lessons so that I can remember that it isn't always about being the best, but it's about learning everything you can and having fun! Now I'm not saying I lack the desire to be the best, I do still dream of being number one in our class, I just want to make sure that my competitive side doesn't get the better of me, and that I remember there are more important things!

That being said I can finally "introduce" you to my amazing friends

Brittany, Geri, Me, Rachael, Maureen, and Jill

We have so much fun together, and we even got our significant others to meet and have dinner with all of us (and I think they may have actually enjoyed it, at least I know Chris did!). Safe to say we spent the whole night laughing, which is pretty much what always happens when we all get together. Much needed relief from our law school craziness!!

And now I will end this post with a tribute to one of my favorite little guys in the world and a list of why I love him (and miss him!!)

Brooklyn

I love him because . . .

He is so animated (in this one he is telling me a story about his trucks crashing!)

He makes me laugh:)

Even at the age of 2, he's got an amazing passion for music

He is so adventurous

He never fails to gross out the moms at the children's museum, which completely amuses me (they all look at me grotesquely as I let him eat bubbles, stuff his face into the fountains and suck on the ping pong ball, whatever, germs wont kill him!)

He really believes that he is lightning mcqueen (sp?) sometimes

He has always kept us on our toes (even as a baby)

He sometimes lets me take pictures with him

And so many other reasons!

Well on that note I will leave you now. Our new puppy Dumas comes home tomorrow and I will of course post pics when I can! So excited for my saturday off! Now back to homework, on a friday night!

And fall reared it's UGLY head!

Not that I think the fall season is ugly in and of itself, just a lot of the things it brings are ugly. Such as cold weather, cold house, cold rain, cold car in the morning, cold dog that doesn't want to go outside, cold hands, and layers of clothing . . . all of which I find very ugly:)

Lets just say that the weather had a grand effect on my mood this week. I had my first minor breakdown on Monday (the first cold day of fall, coincidence? I think not!) I just felt overwhelmed with reading and studying for my first practice exam, and anxious about receiving my first graded paper back the next day. Then I woke up the next morning refreshed (albeit still crabby of the weather) and no longer stressed.

First paper was a success in my opinion. I got above the average, hooray! I probably won't ever post my actual grades, because this blog is public and we have this unsaid, and sometimes said rule in our little friend group that we don't ask and we don't tell. It saves the drama, and the people feeling bad cause they didn't do as well as you, or did better than you. The practice test went pretty well. I got in all of the issues that he said we should. However, it left me feeling a little bit unsure about the exams. How much detail do I need, should I focus on less issues and more detail, or more issues and less detail? Our professor didn't really give us a definite answer, but I plan on having him read my response to tell me what he thinks i need to improve on, so that should make it better!

Now with the week behind me I wanted to do a quick note on my wonderful friends and how much they made me laugh this week (and every other week for that matter). I will try to explain what was going on in the following situations, but I'm mostly putting them down so I look back to them one day, and laugh hysterically again:)

#1Lunch and Neil:

There is this librarian at school named neil. And he is not your typical sweet helpful librarian. Not only is he really into is job, but he is also really intense. On our library tour he spent 10 minutes telling us how we should never call the bottom level of the library the "basement" it is not a "basement", it is a "lower level". And you really cannot enter the library when Neil is there without hearing "shhhh". So we were talking about Neil at lunch, and Geri, the appointed Jester in our group, thought (kiddingly) what if "shhh" was just a speech impediment that Neil had, and that he really couldn't help but say "shhh" all the time. She then began listing off the things he would be doing all the while saying "shhh" let's just say it turned into belly laughing by all of us, and the entire lunch room looking at us like we were crazy (not the first time)

#2 Fee Simple me your husband

In property we are learning about how one inherits land. If property is the type that is inheritable forever, it is called a "fee simple". I find the term simple ridiculous because it makes no sense, why not just call it "inheritable land". So fee simple was topic of many of our "this is so stupid" conversations this week. Well one day we were talking about our husbands/significant others, and I was saying how great Chris is at cooking and taking care of the house, and taking care of me:) The Rachel states, "I want a fee simple on your husband when you die." hehe, safe to say belly laughing and staring commenced again:)

I know it is probably not funny to most, but it just goes to show how great (and crazy) friends can really make your week. Next week we are all having dinner at Jill's house and bringing along our significant others so they can meet. It should be a good time and hopefully we can get some good pictures so I can "introduce" everyone to you!

Well that is all for my crazy ramblings. Have a good weekend everyone!